“I wish life had a rewind button”
Being millennials in our twenties, we are supposed to be living our best life. Yet, why most of the times it feels like we are doubting yourself, confused, and not feeling like we are good enough. As humans, we are constantly making mistakes and evolving. It is normal to feel down once in a while. But if we keep constantly feeling down, confused, and not happy with the life we have, we are not doing something right.
Often, we do not realize that we are holding on to mindsets and habits that are pushing us away from happiness and success. Here I list 40 things that I believe will ruin your twenties. Remember that these things are acceptable to happen once in a while (as we are only humans after all!) but if these happen constantly in your day to day life, something is not right, and you need to change it. If you choose not to, these will definitely ruin any potential of happiness or success in your twenties.
#1 Care too much about what other things
#2 Being insecure
#3 Feel sorry for yourself (victim mentality)
#4 Falling in love after a first date
#5 Not valuing yourself
#6 Making anxiety as an excuse
#7 Not being confident
#8 Too afraid to take risks
#9 Being Lazy
#10 Wasting your time during productive hours
#11 Giving up too easily
#12 Not being financially independent
#13 Still live at your parents house
#14 Not travel enough
#15 Too scared to do things alone
#16 Not knowing how to deal with tax
#17 Not knowing your legal rights and responsibilities
#18 Not reading or watching daily/weekly news
#19 Being ignorant
#20 Too afraid to go out there and socialize
#21 Comparing yourself to others
#22 Not learning how to cook
#23 Not going to events to network
#24 Too lazy to read books
#25 Not cleaning your place
#26 Not building your own empire
#27 Relying too much on other people
#28 Spending more than 3 days in a week without interacting with other people
#29 Doubting yourself
#30 Not having faith in yourself
#31 Taking things personally
#32 Not being happy with what you have
#33 Constantly complaining
#34 Avoiding change
#35 Only stay in your comfort zone
#36 Not wanting to grow
#37 Too afraid to fail
#38 Thinking that you are a failure
#39 Too scared to explore your potential
#40 Too scared to explore the world